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wow, that's pretty fucked up. i could understand having a negative reaction to someone lying or being disingenuous, but to react that way to people that are cha
by grkvlt 10y ago
wow, that's pretty fucked up. i could understand having a negative reaction to someone lying or being disingenuous, but to react that way to people that are charismatic and assertive suggests more that there is a problem with you, not them?
- lsc 10y ago>suggests more that there is a problem with you, not them Hm, I see we have another confident and charismatic person here! but seriously, I am told that what is wrong with me is that I understand confidence as "The level of aggression appropriate to the social station one is emulating" I don't understand how anyone finds that a pleasant quality, aside from the fact that it indicates you don't have too much aggression for your social station. Of course, all of the "socially skilled" people I talk to tell me that I'm missing the true meaning of confidence, but then they describe something that has nothing to do with the observable qualities of the leaders who are described as confident.