The funny thing is that a lot of people will read this and say "Well, that's what I'm doing. I'm one of the few that actually does this the right way." But fro

The funny thing is that a lot of people will read this and say "Well, that's what I'm doing. I'm one of the few that actually does this the right way." But from my oberservations of others (hard to observe yourself in that regard) thinking that way is usually a sign to be on the far other side and seldom question your own opinion. Thinking that myself, I probably have to look out a lot more for chances to see things from the other person's perspective.