I'm a decade behind you but having my daughter was a huge wake up call. I was leading a machine learning side project with plenty of of 20-somethings. They were

I'm a decade behind you but having my daughter was a huge wake up call. I was leading a machine learning side project with plenty of of 20-somethings. They were very eager and involved, until my daughter was born. Suddenly half the team quit. One guy admitted he just assumed the project was over as soon as I had a kid, like I was dead or something. I ended up coding a majority of the project by myself.