When me and my colleagues are tearing our hair out over a problem, I'll often exclaim "These computer things are hard!". It's delivered both as a joke, and also

When me and my colleagues are tearing our hair out over a problem, I'll often exclaim "These computer things are hard!". It's delivered both as a joke, and also a reminder that it's okay to take a while to figure out the problem in a particularly complex system. Eases the tension a touch.