Having realized some discrepancies in my skillset, I would actually prefer honest but temporarily-demotivating feedback. If not, I'll start questioning more stu

Having realized some discrepancies in my skillset, I would actually prefer honest but temporarily-demotivating feedback. If not, I'll start questioning more stuff than actually has been a deal breaker. Yes, it will be painful for a while to hear "you cannot sing", but I'd prefer it. The more specific the better. After all, we're adults and I have to deal with my personal bugs daily anyway. Of course, this assumes the feedback is qualified, but that's up to my impression of how much I value their feedback. If I have the impression they're totally unqualified, I might not spend a second thought on their judgement.