I have empathy. I have empathy for the friends and family of those we cannot save. I also have empathy for the reduced number of people that will suffer losses

I have empathy. I have empathy for the friends and family of those we cannot save. I also have empathy for the reduced number of people that will suffer losses of friends and loved ones as we reduce harm to the human herd. What should I do? If you think jfrisby and myself lack empathy, what do you think empathy looks like and how do you think it would change our moral stances? Is this an academic question to you? Or do you actually have these questions weighing on your conscience as a result of things you've done in the course of your work?