I missed plenty of bithday parties because of facebok. I usually just call and congratulate in those cases, people feel awkward and then say "you need to get on

I missed plenty of bithday parties because of facebok. I usually just call and congratulate in those cases, people feel awkward and then say "you need to get on fb". If I do show up after the call it often messes things up, like their plan for some number of seats of something. I thing facebookers perceive non-fakebookers as antisocial. I'm okay with that, I'm also okay that people erode the friendship because I'm not on fakebook, it means you weren't a real friend after all because you weren't also friend on fb, how simple is it really!