I think we don't have enough details, but I wonder if you're starting arguments with people? When someone blocks you, do you go to them and tell them they are

I think we don't have enough details, but I wonder if you're starting arguments with people? When someone blocks you, do you go to them and tell them they are blocking you? Do you get upset when they tell you that they're already working on it, and they have nothing for you? Personally, when someone is blocking me and I've got nothing else to work on, I note that I'm waiting for that something in my ticket (not the person! the thing I'm waiting on) and ask my boss for something else to work on. It's then up to them to re-prioritize things and deal with the blockage somehow. I'm imagining that you're balking and asking why it matters that you don't name the person... And I'm with you there. I think it's silly. But people have fragile egos, and pointing out their failings is called "toxic" because it puts them in a bad mood. You probably experience this, too, and don't really know what's going on. (I'm taking this post as proof of it. If it didn't bother you that they called you Toxic, you wouldn't have posted in the first place.) In short, more empathy for how others feel is what they're asking for... And that's not a real obvious thing, no matter how much they claim it is.