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People adapt to their environment, and if their environment is dominated by shallow, fleeting interactions, it's hard to imagine that it doesn't have at least a
by Aelinsaar 10y ago
People adapt to their environment, and if their environment is dominated by shallow, fleeting interactions, it's hard to imagine that it doesn't have at least a temporary effect. The thing is, I don't see it being the dominant force in the life of healthy people. Young or old, your majority of social interactions won't be online, and you're going to be more shaped by consequential interactions.
Friends and family are just going to exert more pressure on who you are, and how you behave, than distant people you don't really know.
For a healthy person. For someone who is very isolated for one reason or another, then it can probably get very strange and unpleasant. That strikes me more as another symptom of whatever isolates, rather than an underlying cause though.
- Swizec 10y agoHave you ever seen a family eat dinner with the TV turned on? There's no conversation. Fleeting phrases here and there. Everyone watches TV. It's the same when everyone's smartphone is on the table. Perhaps worse because you aren't even sharing the experience of watching the same TV. All my friends are always inside my phone. Only some of them are in front of me. Guess who wins.
- Aelinsaar 10y agoThat's just a glimpse of their lives, not most of it.