Which is unlikely. If UK walks out of all this, with all the perks it asks for and even less responsibility, just for kindness, then EU will inch towards to be

Which is unlikely. If UK walks out of all this, with all the perks it asks for and even less responsibility, just for kindness, then EU will inch towards to be a bigger failure. Of course things are going to change. As a good outcome, changes should be neutral, not punishment, but noticeable. So in other words, still hurts.