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I don't know your numbers, and the following is thus presumptuous, for which I apologize in advance. But: from what you've written, it seems like you're overth
by mturmon 10y ago
I don't know your numbers, and the following is thus presumptuous, for which I apologize in advance. But: from what you've written, it seems like you're overthinking it. You're still paying off student loans and you're worrying about a child-bearing decision that you could put off until almost 40 years of age?
Somewhere between now and then, one of your assumptions may change.
- rm_-rf_slash 10y agoMy partner is older than I am. Her age is imperative to child-bearing. The older a parent has a child, the more at risk the child is for birth defects and other health problems. Having a child that late - assuming we can afford one by then - while being aware of their potential health implications is simply selfish. If I'm going to have children, I'm doing it for them.