Or you can 3) pick some of the most aggregious issues if there are any and try any of the suggestions in the OPs post that can effect positive change. Not havi

Or you can 3) pick some of the most aggregious issues if there are any and try any of the suggestions in the OPs post that can effect positive change. Not having conflict isn't some higher order way of being a human being, it's a march towards mediocrity. Otherwise, I think you're just trying to be disagreeable with the OPs post cause you both seem to believe the same things :-)