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Unless You're Oprah, 'Be Yourself' Is Terrible Advice

• Shish2k 10y ago
  > A decade ago, the author A. J. Jacobs spent a few weeks trying to be totally authentic. He announced to an editor that he would try to sleep with her [...] You can imagine how his experiment worked out. I've spent a few years trying to be totally authentic, and it's actually worked really well - the difference being that I don't just say every thought that comes into my head as soon as I think it. Like if I had a hot editor I wouldn't jump straight to "I want to sleep with you", but rather think "She's hot... but there are a bunch of external real-world factors that mean sleeping together would be a bad idea and a negative in the long run, so on balance, I prefer the world where it doesn't happen", and then I can honestly say "I am not planning on sleeping with you".
• teilo 10y ago
  Judging how Oprah behaves off camera, not sure this is great advice for her either.