A tip for anyone else with an upcoming wedding to avoid this situation: Keep track of all your RSVP's in a document (excel, google docs, etc), assign one "bully

A tip for anyone else with an upcoming wedding to avoid this situation: Keep track of all your RSVP's in a document (excel, google docs, etc), assign one "bully" on each side of the family (mothers, aunts, etc), when the "RSVP due by" date hits give the bullies the green light to get those answers.