> So who gets to decide that it's sexist? Anyone who feels that it is? Yes. Everyone gets to decide whether things are sexist, whether and when that's a probl

> So who gets to decide that it's sexist? Anyone who feels that it is? Yes. Everyone gets to decide whether things are sexist, whether and when that's a problem, and whether another person having different opinions about any of that should effect the way they act towards that person.