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Is it also possible that the men are usually being more aggressive towards getting more interesting work? After all, in their example the girls could've just t
by rarec 10y ago
Is it also possible that the men are usually being more aggressive towards getting more interesting work?
After all, in their example the girls could've just told the guys no and came to an agreement instead of just accepting their lot.
- cowpewter 10y agoThe problem with that is that once you do it a few times, you get a reputation as a "bitch". Assertive men are seen as a "leaders", assertive women are seen as "bitches".
- SeanMGonzalez 10y agoAs a leader you get criticized. When we're assertive, men are called assholes and women bitches. I think the difference is men tend not to care what they think and believe they're right, regardless. This is useful in that it lets you press on despite the adversity, but detrimental if there really is an issue. It's good that women listen better and are more aware than men of peoples' feedback, it makes them a different kind of leader. Perhaps we need corporate cultures that value listening more. We all have our strengths.
- sp332 10y agoYes. That's the conclusion of Valerie Coffman, who works in the industry and read the study, at the end of the article.