"You are blaming the victim" Odd way of phrasing it. It's more accurate to say "you're pointing out that they have put themselves at risk through a number of i

"You are blaming the victim" Odd way of phrasing it. It's more accurate to say "you're pointing out that they have put themselves at risk through a number of insecure practises". It's not so much blaming a girl for getting raped; more "don't walk around an area that suffers from high crime, at night, using an expensive phone and getting a laptop and flashy camera and act surprised if you get robbed".