Well, you can't have it both ways. You have to do that with MySQL or any other database server, if you're being your own sysadmin. If you really don't want to d

Well, you can't have it both ways. You have to do that with MySQL or any other database server, if you're being your own sysadmin. If you really don't want to deal with it, then you need to hire someone to manage it or use something like Heroku.