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> A single friend can call/text/drop in to tell me about something, but what if that friend wanted to lets say inform a 100 of his contacts of this without havi
by JadeNB 10y ago
> A single friend can call/text/drop in to tell me about something, but what if that friend wanted to lets say inform a 100 of his contacts of this without having to send 100 texts/call/emails and keeping track of all of them for responses?
I think that the key lies in forgetsusername's precise wording (https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=11888033 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=11888033): "I manage to have the same social life I've ever had"—not necessarily the same one you've ever had. I, too, have the same social life that I've ever had without using Facebook. My answer to how I keep up with the plans that my friend broadcasts to 100 people only through Facebook is that I don't, and never have, participated in events that require notifications of 100 people. If I want to hang out with my friend, I do so; if my friend wants to host an enormous party, then I will wish him or her good luck, and see him or her later when we can have some time to ourselves.
(This means that my social life is probably pretty dull by the standards of those who participate in those parties, which is fine by me!)
- sdoering 10y agoThanks for these thoughts. I rarely see the difference between extroverts and introverted people so clearly examplified. Or at least people who do not like the see massive party things.