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So you can stay partying till 1 am and not spend time with your kids, working till 9 and let a babysitter put your kids to bed? Spend your weekend drinking beer
by usaphp 10y ago
So you can stay partying till 1 am and not spend time with your kids, working till 9 and let a babysitter put your kids to bed? Spend your weekend drinking beer and having fun with your friends instead of teaching your kid riding a bike or something else. Until you have kids you won't realize - it is actually fun and joy to spend your day with your kids and they appreciate it when they grow up and will want to spend time with you when they grow up, instead of not knowing their parents because they spend all time with a baby sitter while their parents are being "adults with adult activities"
- protomyth 10y agoOnly on a message board would someone think I said that. We are talking about rearranging your whole life. I am most certainly not saying going to the other extreme.
- usaphp 10y agoSo let's say you had a gym session at 8 am, and now you have to drop your kid at school at 8, according to your words "kids should understand that you have your activities" And you can just go to gym while your babysitter will cook breakfast and drop them at school? Why have kids then if you can't and don't want to change something in your life to be with them more?
- protomyth 10y agoNope, that's not what I said or meant. Your a family and you balance. We are talking about people obsessing about scheduling and removing all adult time.