Wow. Thank you for such a detailed response. I may come back and have questions about this later (but I don't want to presume...) I think Re #1 - that I did tr

Wow. Thank you for such a detailed response. I may come back and have questions about this later (but I don't want to presume...) I think Re #1 - that I did treat them differently is probably right. I almost went back and edited my original question a few seconds after I posted it. I noticed that I blushed (a lot) when women would say risque things vs. guys. They noticed too - and ganged up on me a little about it. There were probably more instances of this. I need to think about it some more. Thank you.