Is raising right necessarily pushing? I decided that I don't have the energy to force my kids to overachieve at things they don't want. But... If they are inte

Is raising right necessarily pushing? I decided that I don't have the energy to force my kids to overachieve at things they don't want. But... If they are interested in anything, I will help them find the best instruction. For one this is foreign languages, the other it's chess and programming. But if they weren't interested, I wouldn't make it my mission to push. It's their life, and achieving "potential" is ultimately on them.