> "notion that if we have an environment where we can all be super girly like omg together" My wife normally works remotely, but meets with her team in person

> "notion that if we have an environment where we can all be super girly like omg together" My wife normally works remotely, but meets with her team in person twice a year. Last time, at the first whole-team dinner, she announced she was pregnant... and the other women on the team fawned and fussed over her the rest of the week. Which was super duper uncomfortable for her, as one of the most extreme introverts I know. She's not interested in being "girly". She's interested in being who she is -- technical, brilliant, competitive, powerful, and into My Little Ponies because it's a great show, not because it's girly.