This American does not believe that residents "own" the streets. But I also understand the people who live on quiet residential streets would like to keep traff

This American does not believe that residents "own" the streets. But I also understand the people who live on quiet residential streets would like to keep traffic to a minimum. That's probably why they chose to live there! So I do think it is rude to consistently cut through their neighborhoods, undermining their expectation of a quiet neighborhood, and generally reducing their quality of life when there are other perfectly good routes available.