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Surely you can see there's a middle ground where you listen to other people's views, but don't accept them immediately. All-or-nothing thinking is another big
by neilk 17y ago
Surely you can see there's a middle ground where you listen to other people's views, but don't accept them immediately.
All-or-nothing thinking is another big stressor, by the way.
- RyanMcGreal 17y agoYour reply is stressing me out. :)
- neilk 17y ago:) On a more serious note, it really does help to pull back from the extremes. I'm guilty of oscillating between thinking of myself as the absolute best or the absolute worst. Both are a struggle to live with. Or demanding absolute clarity about principles before proceeding. It's important to tolerating ambiguity. And trust in yourself to navigate even without perfect knowledge.