> We do not need to provide victims with advice that "targets the world as it actually is" Unless I'm completely misunderstanding you, this is nothing short of

> We do not need to provide victims with advice that "targets the world as it actually is" Unless I'm completely misunderstanding you, this is nothing short of delusional. We absolutely need to provide victims - and potential victims - with the tools to handle (or avoid) unpleasant and dangerous situations. > but instead we need to provide all members of the community advice that targets how they can (and should) be preventing transgressions against others. As others have mentioned, these aren't mutually exclusive options. Social norms can - and have - changed for the better, but it's more than a little ridiculous to expect victims to wait a generation or two in the hope that society will become more self aware. What's so evil about advice that is intended to improve their quality of life now?