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Never going to happen. If a guy is attracted to a girl, and the only chance is to engage with her right then and there, if that guy wants a shot at getting what
by mikelyons 10y ago
Never going to happen. If a guy is attracted to a girl, and the only chance is to engage with her right then and there, if that guy wants a shot at getting what he wants in his life, he's going to go for it. Then it's up to the girl to make her disinterest clear. If the guy can see she's disinterested then he backs off. If he's the kind of guy who respects women then he'll back off. If he's the kind of guy who harasses women, he'll harass. Teaching me that it was wrong to steal candy from the candy store when I was a kid didn't stop me, getting caught stopped me. I just happen to have respect for women and great social intuition, so one of two things happens in my personal experience. The girl is into me, and it ends up being a really cool start of a lot of fun for both of us. Or she shows me she's not interested and I tell her it was nice meeting and I move on. There's never going to be a world where all men behave as well as I do. Tell victims how to prevent it, maybe some will be prevented. Tell offenders not to offend, then maybe some of them will change their mind about what they think they can get away with...?
- mikelyons 10y agoThis adds an important angle to the discussion, and that's that people who want to harass someone don't care if you tell them not to. I am being downvoted simply because its an unpopular opinion and not because it doesn't add to the discussion.