> Many couples just do it that way because that's "how it's done" without really thinking about it. Are you sure about that? Have you asked them? No one that I

> Many couples just do it that way because that's "how it's done" without really thinking about it. Are you sure about that? Have you asked them? No one that I know makes these decisions just because that's "how it's done," although I can imagine that might be how it looks from the outside.