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Thanks for your comments. A few years ago, in my late 30s, I was diagnosed with bipolar, ADHD, and anxiety disorder (all three have high comorbidity, interesti
by ap22213 10y ago
Thanks for your comments.
A few years ago, in my late 30s, I was diagnosed with bipolar, ADHD, and anxiety disorder (all three have high comorbidity, interestingly). When I got the diagnosis, I was a little bothered. In my family and culture, it's considered a weakness to have mental illness or even talk about it. One is just supposed to 'tough it out'. And, I did tough it out up until then. But, I had finally reached my breaking point and sought out help.
One of the first things the doctor asked me was to describe my family history. My family is largely comprised of highly-intelligent underachievers. Although my parents and siblings are all in the 3 standard deviation IQ club, I was only the first to be able to hold down a regular job and finish college.
When I described my parents' behavior and history to the doctor, he was able to quickly see the patterns and inherited traits. We were all suffering from something similar that had held us back from success (and having general life satisfaction). In fact, after seeing how much easier life has become since I began treatment, I felt terrible for my parents. For most of their life they suffered and ended up self-medicating with much worse things.
I find the backlash against ADHD treatment and all mental illnesses to be extremely classist. There are likely large portions of the population who could have achieved much more happiness and success if they only had had treatment. There seems to be a movement to keep these people untreated for dubious reasons.
And, the downsides of ADHD treatment are quite minor in comparison. In fact, having experimented with different substances over the years, I find Adderall to be almost insignificant. I occasionally miss weeks at a time and feel no noticeable withdrawal. In comparison, alcohol, nicotine, and caffeine are all extremely difficult to quit both physically and psychologically.
- jrapdx3 10y agoYour story is one that's familiar to me and I appreciate the courage it takes to face the realities you describe. In my experience you have really nailed the important elements of dealing with these seriously disabling conditions, and comments like yours are enormously helpful to informing people about the nature of the problems. The comorbidities and family history are often similar to your situation. I often said "comorbidity is the rule not the exception", and ADHD and bipolar D/O are known to be highly heritable conditions. Tolerability of stimulant medications is usually quite good. Can't say the same for agents available for bipolar D/O, it's especially devilish to manage when ADHD and mood D/O are both present. I glean that you've responded pretty well to treatment and that's great. One thing I learned is that treatment can help patients improve tremendously, essentially functioning in the "normal" range. In the treatment field we consider "normalization" to be the "gold standard" of success. It takes time, years in most cases, but the benefit of persistent treatment is in my view extremely clear. The key advice I always offered was "keep up the good work".