That's like saying: Lack of sex and romance is immoral: why should anyone have to find a consenting partner? The obvious answer is that rape is an initiation

That's like saying: Lack of sex and romance is immoral: why should anyone have to find a consenting partner? The obvious answer is that rape is an initiation of force. It's immoral. Your needs or desires don't change that. Lack of BI is not immoral. It's like saying lack of trust fund is immoral. It makes no sense. People don't have a moral obligation to provide you with things.