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Building a school in a far off country without any prior experience in doing so can be good in the short term, but disastrous in the long run. These sorts of in

by bpchaps 10y ago

Building a school in a far off country without any prior experience in doing so can be good in the short term, but disastrous in the long run. These sorts of initiatives feel good and do what they're supposed to do, but just because it feels good and has a short term gain, doesn't mean it's a good answer and especially not the best answer. Replace "women" with "medicated schizophrenics" (no subtext there..) and you'll find that the problems are very similar. A solution that addresses workplace gender issues could potentially be used to address workplace mental health issues. Yet, instead of addressing the problem with a wide and possibly empathy based solution, we're stuck with incredibly specific solutions and enormous gaps where solutions should exist. I'm convinced that the whole issue stems from a lack of empathy in the workplace, and studies like [0] seem to hint towards the same. [0] http://ns.umich.edu/new/releases/7724-empathy-college-students-don-t-have-as-much-as-they-used-to http://ns.umich.edu/new/releases/7724-empathy-college-studen... Edit: another point to add - I once went to HR to talk about my mental health issues. The HR head who had a degree in psychology didn't know what bipolar was, outside of the fact that it's a thing that exists. The number of things wrong with that talk was mind boggling, especially after literally zero came from it. This was at a relatively large company, too.

AdeptusAquinas 10y ago
Building a school in a far off country without any prior experiencing in doing so is bad, but certainly not the same issue as trying to artificially increase diversity in the work place right? Quite different contexts. I'm sorry that where you are seems like it doesn't deal with mental health very well (or at all, it sounds like). I'm from NZ and we have both very good gender equality (though not perfect, especially in tech) and very good support for those with health problems, psychological or otherwise (though again, not perfect - no government initiative can cover all scenarios and companies are fallible like anyone else). Rather than arguing that gender problems shouldn't be addressed or should not receive as much focus, shouldn't you be arguing 'great, now can we also work on other areas of difficulty like ADHD?'
- bpchaps 10y ago
  They're different problems, but the the feelgood intent with large, unintended consequences is what I'm referring to, rather than the contexts themselves. I totally think that we should be using what we've learned from employment gender/racial issues to help out mental health problems. Not saying we shouldn't. I'm suggesting that the conversation should be much broader to address it at the level of empathy, without resorting to ego compartmentalization. If the empathy problems can be fixed, I highly suspect that everything else will fall in line. As bold of a statement as that is, it matches my experience where simply telling someone "I have bipolar" increases communicative empathy. That's almost never an option though, since the subject is taboo enough that mentioning it has negative consequences. Why should we wait until gender issues are "fixed" to try to address that taboo?

by bpchaps 10y ago

AdeptusAquinas 10y ago

Building a school in a far off country without any prior experiencing in doing so is bad, but certainly not the same issue as trying to artificially increase diversity in the work place right? Quite different contexts. I'm sorry that where you are seems like it doesn't deal with mental health very well (or at all, it sounds like). I'm from NZ and we have both very good gender equality (though not perfect, especially in tech) and very good support for those with health problems, psychological or otherwise (though again, not perfect - no government initiative can cover all scenarios and companies are fallible like anyone else). Rather than arguing that gender problems shouldn't be addressed or should not receive as much focus, shouldn't you be arguing 'great, now can we also work on other areas of difficulty like ADHD?'

bpchaps 10y ago
They're different problems, but the the feelgood intent with large, unintended consequences is what I'm referring to, rather than the contexts themselves. I totally think that we should be using what we've learned from employment gender/racial issues to help out mental health problems. Not saying we shouldn't. I'm suggesting that the conversation should be much broader to address it at the level of empathy, without resorting to ego compartmentalization. If the empathy problems can be fixed, I highly suspect that everything else will fall in line. As bold of a statement as that is, it matches my experience where simply telling someone "I have bipolar" increases communicative empathy. That's almost never an option though, since the subject is taboo enough that mentioning it has negative consequences. Why should we wait until gender issues are "fixed" to try to address that taboo?