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I imagine you probably live somewhere where the cost of living is significantly higher than the rest of the country. I left the Washington DC Metro area which

I imagine you probably live somewhere where the cost of living is significantly higher than the rest of the country. I left the Washington DC Metro area which is exactly as you describe and moved to Greenville, SC. My wife has been able to be a stay at home mom here and we get access to a decent education for our daughter. Any difference in quality of education can be made up by the parents imo. Leaving an area which required 2 parents to work has been one of the greatest things I've ever done and I won't go back. We are significantly happier without that pressure.

rm_-rf_slash 10y ago
It doesn't have to be the entire cost of living, just the cost of housing. In Upstate NY there are farms everywhere so food is cheap. The upside to everything being gray and snowy all the time is that water is basically free. And as for other services like telcos and electricity, we pay around the same as the rest of the country. But then comes rent. It is ridiculous to think that unless you live waaaaaayyy out in the sticks there's no chance you are gonna afford a mortgage down payment anytime soon after graduating college (forget high school), and even as a professional with a professional partner the idea of buying a house is still years away. If we can't own a house we can't build equity. We can't use the property as collateral if we need a loan. It all goes back to housing, and right here, it sucks.
- morgante 10y ago
  What upstate NY are you talking about? I've looked into buying a house up there and it looks incredibly cheap.
  - rm_-rf_slash 10y ago
    Ithaca, where income-to-housing costs rival San Francisco. Like I said, it's fine if you want to live in the boonies, but that also means you're an hour away from anything resembling civilization.
    - infinite8s 10y ago
      Ithaca is also a college town (Cornell) so it's not quite a fair comparison to most rural areas.
- Shivetya 10y ago
  One major difference in the North East is that many areas have very high property taxes. It isn't uncommon to find similar property taxes to be a tenth of those values in the South.
  - rm_-rf_slash 10y ago
    Bingo. Absolutely. Couldn't be stated enough. My brother goes to college in North Carolina. Demographically it is very similar: medium sized cities with rural stretched in between. Only real difference is weather and taxes. Can't do anything about the weather...
mattferderer 10y ago
I agree strongly with this. The opportunities the above scenario provides & the reduction in stress is worth more than most average income jobs provide.
skiningham 10y ago
My wife and I have been looking at cost of living options in a few areas such as the northern part of Virginia. Here in SC, we both work (no kids) and are able to save up. In Virginia we would be barely scraping by at the same income level. My house in SC is worth <$150k. That would literally purchase a double-wide trailer outside of Charlottesville.
- sbjustin 10y ago
  Hey Skiningham!

rm_-rf_slash 10y ago

It doesn't have to be the entire cost of living, just the cost of housing. In Upstate NY there are farms everywhere so food is cheap. The upside to everything being gray and snowy all the time is that water is basically free. And as for other services like telcos and electricity, we pay around the same as the rest of the country. But then comes rent. It is ridiculous to think that unless you live waaaaaayyy out in the sticks there's no chance you are gonna afford a mortgage down payment anytime soon after graduating college (forget high school), and even as a professional with a professional partner the idea of buying a house is still years away. If we can't own a house we can't build equity. We can't use the property as collateral if we need a loan. It all goes back to housing, and right here, it sucks.

morgante 10y ago
What upstate NY are you talking about? I've looked into buying a house up there and it looks incredibly cheap.
- rm_-rf_slash 10y ago
  Ithaca, where income-to-housing costs rival San Francisco. Like I said, it's fine if you want to live in the boonies, but that also means you're an hour away from anything resembling civilization.
  - infinite8s 10y ago
    Ithaca is also a college town (Cornell) so it's not quite a fair comparison to most rural areas.
Shivetya 10y ago
One major difference in the North East is that many areas have very high property taxes. It isn't uncommon to find similar property taxes to be a tenth of those values in the South.
- rm_-rf_slash 10y ago
  Bingo. Absolutely. Couldn't be stated enough. My brother goes to college in North Carolina. Demographically it is very similar: medium sized cities with rural stretched in between. Only real difference is weather and taxes. Can't do anything about the weather...

mattferderer 10y ago

I agree strongly with this. The opportunities the above scenario provides & the reduction in stress is worth more than most average income jobs provide.

skiningham 10y ago

My wife and I have been looking at cost of living options in a few areas such as the northern part of Virginia. Here in SC, we both work (no kids) and are able to save up. In Virginia we would be barely scraping by at the same income level. My house in SC is worth <$150k. That would literally purchase a double-wide trailer outside of Charlottesville.

sbjustin 10y ago
Hey Skiningham!