That long commute only happens when you live outside of the expensive coastal city, but insist on working there. I can probably drive to all those places (work

That long commute only happens when you live outside of the expensive coastal city, but insist on working there. I can probably drive to all those places (work, school, grocery) faster than you can walk to them. Had I been willing to live on a street with cars passing by, I could have been within a few hundred feet of work+school or the grocery store. As it is, they are all within 3 miles without really any traffic. Getting to work is 3 minutes. Getting to groceries is about 7 minutes, and I can actually bring back enough stuff for a large family. School would be 1 or 2 minutes. Oh, as a bonus, I never face the threat of personal crime.