I had a friend once who would insult people and then when they got angry or hurt he would say: I don't control your feelings, you control your feelings. Techni

I had a friend once who would insult people and then when they got angry or hurt he would say: I don't control your feelings, you control your feelings. Technically true, perhaps, depending on certain philosophically assumptions. But practically absurd. And certainly a terrible mental model about how humans work in situ.