> That was the one black point about my gf's experience when she was having trouble finding something that suited her: they dangled the threat of dropping her f

> That was the one black point about my gf's experience when she was having trouble finding something that suited her: they dangled the threat of dropping her from their network. Are you saying she was turning down legitimate offers because it wasn't exactly what she wanted, or she wasn't getting offers and they were threatening her to get her to try harder, or something else?