Sometimes identity has a way of finding you, even if you try your hardest to keep it out. People define you, and depending on who or where you are, those defin

Sometimes identity has a way of finding you, even if you try your hardest to keep it out. People define you, and depending on who or where you are, those definitions can have profound impact on your life. This piece reads like a person who has never had to deal with that, or at least never had to think about it.