I know a couple of beautiful, smart, incredible black women in their mid-20s who haven't even kissed a guy, much less been in a relationship The majority of my

I know a couple of beautiful, smart, incredible black women in their mid-20s who haven't even kissed a guy, much less been in a relationship The majority of my friends (both white and black), in their mid twenties, fall into this category (not really been in a relationship). I think the only major dating disadvantage for black women is that they are living in a majority white society which will, clearly, have a preference for white women (not in a racist sense; I don't think that has as big an impact as people insinuate). Im white and as non-racist as they come and I dont particularly find black women attractive (though I have dated a few). I think the GP your replying too wasn't comparing the problems faced by the two demographics; simply the result. And pointing out that one could be quantified exactly because of the fact you mention (it's hard to change skin colour). As it happens I think that the capacity for change and the actual ability to do so are very different. "u r so hawt" guys are not "u r so hawt" guys for one single reason (as opposed to black women) but in the majority of cases a change is unlikely enough to happen, on average, as to make it impossible. Low intelligence is a common factor - and that is just has hard to change :)