> You can be focused on ass and cleavage, but not be creepy: eg, if you're honest and open that that's what you're looking for, and not trying to hide or be som

> You can be focused on ass and cleavage, but not be creepy: eg, if you're honest and open that that's what you're looking for, and not trying to hide or be something you're not. I suppose that I believe the first part of your sentence, but I don't think that the second elaborates on it sufficiently. A guy who wore a sign saying "I am focussed on ass and cleavage!" and stared at those attributes of all women in the vicinity would, I think, still be creepy. (Maybe I am just using the word in a different sense.) I think that it is important to be open and honest about your intentions, but also to be willing to respect others' right to reject those intentions.