I'd argue that the issue isn't in the broad "behaviours" you're talking about - it's in your body language. Attractive people, overall, are unlikely to worry ab

I'd argue that the issue isn't in the broad "behaviours" you're talking about - it's in your body language. Attractive people, overall, are unlikely to worry about whether any single interaction is going to go well - and when they are focused on it going well, they can and do come across as creepy. People who are less attractive are possibly more likely to attempt to emulate those broad behaviours, but with much more invested in whether any interaction goes well. This comes out really obviously in body language and people don't like that - I owe you nothing, and you're acting like I do. Attractive, in both sentences above, does not solely mean "physically attractive". Additionally, I don't participate in the hookup scene, and it's possibly very likely that physical attractiveness is much more necessary there than in dating.