It would be nice to say that people are above emotions in life, but my current will always view my exs as competition. It's just the way it is, and I accept it

It would be nice to say that people are above emotions in life, but my current will always view my exs as competition. It's just the way it is, and I accept it. If you think yours doesn't, you may have an enlightened girlfriend, or she may just not be sharing her beliefs. Would you be 100% ok if your current had an ex who kept showing up?