If the world you live requires you to be a hyper conformist, to lead a peace full, happy life, will you raise your children as a free thinker? For example, wil

If the world you live requires you to be a hyper conformist, to lead a peace full, happy life, will you raise your children as a free thinker? For example, will you encourage the child to question you and talk back when you ask him/her to do something, if encouraging it might cause them problems/conflicts later in life?