Legally safe is to have lots of cash in your war chest, and enough time to be very patient. The law doesn't need to be on your side if the judge is. Perhaps I

Legally safe is to have lots of cash in your war chest, and enough time to be very patient. The law doesn't need to be on your side if the judge is. Perhaps I'm only pessimistic because I have been metaphorically kicked in the teeth by too many kinds of grown-up bullies, and have seen too many all-too-familiar stories about it happening to other people like me.