> she really doesn't want to cause problem > made it clear that it's not a big deal and she knows how to deal with it Last year I watched an emotionally stron

> she really doesn't want to cause problem > made it clear that it's not a big deal and she knows how to deal with it Last year I watched an emotionally strong friend reduced to a terrified sobbing mess before he gathered the courage to go to his leadership about a sexual harassment issue with his direct superior. I know you won't take her grace for granted but please consider that how she really feels may be different than what she says in order to maintain professionalism.