Neary drowned aged 4 in a lake. I can vividly remember seeing rusty bikes and other things at the bottom of the lake, yet I cannot remember anything about the

Neary drowned aged 4 in a lake. I can vividly remember seeing rusty bikes and other things at the bottom of the lake, yet I cannot remember anything about the person that dived and saved my life. Best advice I can give you - never turn your back on your children near water. It may sound obvious, but it only takes a split second and they are gone.