The time scale matters. My expectation was sex, yes, but with marriage. I had no real desire to be a manslut, or whatever you'd call it. The risks and costs wo

The time scale matters. My expectation was sex, yes, but with marriage. I had no real desire to be a manslut, or whatever you'd call it. The risks and costs would not be worthwhile. BTW, I mostly avoided paying. I didn't want to feel used.