"I roll my eyes and say, 'because feminism'." I think my degree of investment was entirely appropriate given the new turn of the discourse. But! But but but! A

"I roll my eyes and say, 'because feminism'." I think my degree of investment was entirely appropriate given the new turn of the discourse. But! But but but! As you were kind to me, I have paid it forward as well! I've actually offered an explanation. Investigation of who I am talking to leads me to believe my first suggestion might still have more impact on their thinking though.