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This kind of stereotyping is an inevitable result of the worlds of "weird nerds" and "cool nerds" colliding in the workplace. There were no cool nerds in high s
by brianpgordon 10y ago
This kind of stereotyping is an inevitable result of the worlds of "weird nerds" and "cool nerds" colliding in the workplace. There were no cool nerds in high school. Instead of working out or partying, we played games or fiddled with computers in sullen, slightly embarrassed solitude or with a cadre of other misfit rejects. The idea of someone writing code after a morning of pumping iron is strange and threatening to someone who's been marginalized or just excluded by the cool kids all of their life.
I like this article:
https://medium.com/@maradydd/when-nerds-collide-31895b01e68c#.4siaw43pe https://medium.com/@maradydd/when-nerds-collide-31895b01e68c...
> the process of unlearning lessons ingrained from childhood takes a lot more than a cap and gown or even a $10 million VC check
Shedding these prejudices is just part of growing up, and a lot of engineers are awfully young.
And if you have an eighty gallon drum of protein by your desk, it's probably worth reading pg's essay on high school to get some insight into where the hostility is coming from:
http://www.paulgraham.com/nerds.html http://www.paulgraham.com/nerds.html
- pc86 10y ago> There were no cool nerds in high school. Instead of working out or partying, we played games or fiddled with computers in sullen, slightly embarrassed solitude or with a cadre of other misfit rejects. The perfect example of taking your own anecdotal experience and assuming that it must be true for everyone. This was not at all my experience (even though I didn't work out in HS or party like in college), and I'm sure many people here did not have this experience either.
- brianpgordon 10y agoI'm sure you're right, but from what I gather from reading and from consuming media my post still reflects the reality of secondary school in most of America.