I don't disagree. If you could find an example of a guy in a similar situation who has received a similar level of criticism, then I think you could at least c

I don't disagree. If you could find an example of a guy in a similar situation who has received a similar level of criticism, then I think you could at least conclude that gender wasn't the primary factor in motivating criticism. If you couldn't find an example, then not much could be concluded.