> I'd prefer you didn't get to know me I'd prefer not think about it and just get to know people as well. That's what I was trying to get at. It's disappointi

> I'd prefer you didn't get to know me I'd prefer not think about it and just get to know people as well. That's what I was trying to get at. It's disappointing that my attempt to express the catch-22 from my end turns you off to the point of ending the conversation. This is part of the problem with 'diversity' qua 'diversity' IMO. Culture blew past tolerance and on to something else a long time ago. I'm not sure we want real diversity so much.