I get what you're saying. You take a chance on a specific person and then over time your empathy grows and you see them as an extension of yourself. I think rel

I get what you're saying. You take a chance on a specific person and then over time your empathy grows and you see them as an extension of yourself. I think relationships that have long-term potential should ideally have this quality. Lastly, I think that some for some people, sex is meaningless without the empathy, mutual love and concern backing it.